The Empty Nest

I expected my empty nest years ago. My youngest child Alex moved out when he bought his own home at age 21. My daughter had been on her own after college. My oldest child Nate actually moved out when he was about 24 but then........he moved back home. 2 1/2 years ago he moved in for 2 to 3 months, that’s all, “I promise Mom, I’ll be out soon.” Yeah, right.

For the past 14 years he has talked of moving to Florida. I always said I’d believe it when it happened. Well, it happened :-) I can hardly believe it. Nate never liked winter, even when he was a kid. He claims it is because he is Colombian and therefore genetically programmed for warm weather. He left a few days ago for Tampa, arrived Saturday. He went with a friend he met at work. Nate does medical billing for a large national medical supply company. When he gave them his notice they didn’t want to lose him so after an interview he was accepted at the Tampa office of the same company. This was a major relief for me as he had planned to go there without a job, not wise in this economy.

His 11 y.o. son lives with his mother in Lakeville. Poor Sondros is very sad his Dad moved. He knows he has talked about it for years but he’s at an age where he really likes to be with his Dad. I will be taking him to Tampa for spring break.

The cats and I miss Nate too. It’s so quiet around the place. I think I’ll get used to it. I do wish he hadn’t moved so far away. The photos are of the cats watching Nate pack up his car.

Today was in the mid 70’s. Hard to believe for November 3rd. I love fall weather but uffda, the high mold count really affects my allergies and asthma. The next few days are to be reasonably warm but rain and thunderstorms. Then snow and a high of 38 degrees predicted for Friday. Minnie-sota, 4 seasons in a week, gotta love it here. I went to Minnehaha Falls for a walk today and was disappointed that there wasn’t a drop of water in the creek or over the falls.

Today was my last day riding the bus. I am glad because once again I have a respiratory crud.

Don't forget to vote tomorrow. Minnesota always has the highest voter turnout in the country. The last presidential election saw 80% of us voting. I expect tomorrow will be higher.